Haunted

Sometimes I think that the saying "Better late than never" is kinda flawed. I mean, most sayings all are if viewing from a certain perspective, no?

For me, the problem of not doing certain things as scheduled/promised is pretty serious. The guilt of these plague me the moment I miss the 'deadline' and usually paralyses me into inaction. Gradually I move on, slipping these events into a large sack which lays in the corner.

But times come when I trip over the sack, or when I accidentally peek in and discover what rotting mess there is inside. And during these times I think, should I start clearing them out?

Usually the answer is: better late than never. But, better for who exactly? I think the answer is really just myself. Whatever I'm supposed to do has lapsed and does little good to whoever was originally the recipient already. They can live without it. But for me, if I do it, I rid myself of the baggage that has been affecting me for so long and I feel much better from it.

How selfish.. Lol, I do realize that I may be an emotional masochist, which means I go hard on my own feelings. And so I find it hard to rid these overdue tasks.. Why should I make myself feel less guilty? Pretty vicious cycle tbh.

Best way is to just meet the date actually.. Oops?